Cole destroyed his basal
ganglia, the cells in his brain responsible for many important fundamental
operations when he was crushed under a 4-wheeler.
18 months later and after
intensive therapy, Cole entered his sophomore year of high school and is
dependent on an adult for his daily needs. He came back to school because
he missed his friends and is determined to walk across the stage during
graduation.
It is truly enjoyable
spending time with Cole and I sincerely look forward to it. The last time he
stopped by my classroom, he named my new turtle "Ricky".
As a result of his brain
injury, there is a delay in communication which makes interacting very
uncomfortable.
After his last visit, I
began feeling poorly about myself because I felt uneasy around Cole. It is the delay that I’m struggling with.
The delay translates to a
silence lasting, what seems like, eons.
In reality, the time between exchanges is only about 20 seconds.
Why am I uncomfortable
with delays between spoken exchanges?
Why are we so impatient to
receive responses when in conversation?
Why are silent pauses so awkward?
As with every perplexing
question, The Pragmatic TV Teacher dove into the realm of literature to find an
answer.
There is an answer, and
also a way to use silent pauses to our advantage while teaching.
This article describes why
silent, extended pauses are uncomfortable. The second part to the article discusses how we can use
silence during lesson implementation.