January 1st indicates a chance to start fresh and
many of us attempt to tackle unrealistic and absolutely unobtainable
goals. For me, it represents the end of letter of recommendation season.
I’m honored to write a letter. What better way to exercise your purpose as a teacher than
helping someone continue their
education. I also enjoy writing
letters because it is challenging; I’m forced to be creative.
Along with letters of recommendation, those of us that teach
seniors see the first third of the year as “I’m freaking out because everybody says I need a plan for college and
life—I don’t know what to do!”
Seniors are justified in their feelings. The pressure to succeed is often
overwhelming.
I’ve developed
a reputation in my school as the guy who can calm a senior down. Many of the conversations are with
students who were advised to chat with me by their friends. “Mr.
R, Jennifer S is my friend. She
said you can help me with next year.”
I’d like to share how I deal with three frequent comments in
this type of conversation.